Okay, this would be the first time that I would blacklist an artist not because his/her art is bad (it's actually pretty cute and fluffy), but because it makes me so mad and sad. But again, the fact it's making me feel something, it's a good sign.
Okay, this would be the first time that I would blacklist an artist not because his/her art is bad (it's actually pretty cute and fluffy), but because it makes me so mad and sad. But again, the fact it's making me feel something, it's a good sign.
That's actually a pretty good idea. It's either blacklisting an artist or seeing art that pisses you off, so feel free to do it as much as you want. I'd like to add you don't need to justify.
Okay, this would be the first time that I would blacklist an artist not because his/her art is bad (it's actually pretty cute and fluffy), but because it makes me so mad and sad. But again, the fact it's making me feel something, it's a good sign.
I'd recommend blacklisting bullying instead of the artist.
Rather than being upset I'm mostly just fascinated. This kinda bullying itself isn't really funny or creative so I'm mostly just interested in why.
Why? You want a reason!? There is no reason! Kids are like animals - they bite at the first sign of weakness. Rabid at best, deliberately cruel at worst.
I am against violence, especially violence towards kids. But I swear, if I had child, and if I found out they bullied their classmate, I'd slap them so hard the wall would hit them as well! I would not even care, if it's a son or daughter! I'd let anything else pass. Bad grades? No worries. Skipped class? Whatever. But you bullied your clasmate? SMACK!
I disagree, somewhat. There is always a "why", it's just not the deep and thoughtful kind that people tend to look for. Why? Because some people are just cruel. Why? Because hurting people makes them happy. Why? Because they can so why not.
It's the poor victim I feel for. I was also bullied for my sight when I was younger.
The sad thing is, she will likely never talk about this; it's a very common reaction. She'll just pick herself up where the bullies leave off. Always feeling like disability holds other people back and makes her inferior. That she is boring and uncool because she only does blind person things. She'll grow up never thinking better about any of that.
She deserves all the sympathy and warmth in the world. Truly a tragic picture.
I'd recommend blacklisting bullying instead of the artist.
I don't like to blacklist tags at least in conveys a specific theme. If you check that tag, you can see there's a lot of art that is mild or not even similar compared to this piece, like this goofy image in the first page
Again: this artist is making me feel a hard sympathy for an imaginary girl by making me remember that there's cases like this in real life.
Why? You want a reason!? There is no reason! Kids are like animals - they bite at the first sign of weakness. Rabid at best, deliberately cruel at worst.
I disagree, somewhat. There is always a "why", it's just not the deep and thoughtful kind that people tend to look for. Why? Because some people are just cruel. Why? Because hurting people makes them happy. Why? Because they can so why not.
Exactly. There is ALWAYS a "why". And sometimes the "why" is just "it's funny!"
The "why" is sometimes also something the bullied never realized. Like when you were the teacher's pet that reminded in class that surprise evaluation the professor forgot to assign that day. Or that time you betrayed a classmate acting like a snitcher. Or that time your insecurity and low self steem makes you behave like a smart ass when the only ability you worked on gets you a trump card. Maybe those countless times you play the victim card to earn what you want from everyone (specially to adults). It's the small details that gain little by little the hate from someone, they don't come from nothing. If you were bullied you probably made it happen without realizing your actions earned that focused hate on you.
There are of course cases where they simply bullied you for nothing but think about it. What was the reason you were left out from the group? Why there was never someone along protecting you? What you did different that enraged your classmates? There are for example many people with bad vision, not all of them are bullied.
I guess you were a bully and are now justifying you behavior, is that it? "Bullying victims deserved that for reasons most people don't really see" sounds bad to me.
As far as I can tell, I used to be bullied simply because I had frail health and couldn't fight back.
I've been on two sides from three: be bullied, and spectator. Never bullied someone. Those who believe "karma doesn't exist" or "everyone moves on and have successful lives except me" are people who decided to live like a human rug to step on forever. They didn't learn anything from their experience and neither accepted their faults at being a failure even when those who bullied aren't around you anymore. They even forgot who you are because they learned to grow better from their previous selves and moved on with life.
Take this as an advice. We are social people, even in the wild world the one left alone gets eaten. It was the lone one who decided to be apart from the group without even trying to rejoin. There are cases children in their inexperience attack anything they can't understand or fear, that's though luck. I can't justify every bully case with what I am saying.
But, most of the cases I saw about bullying are persons shielding themselves with any excuse to not integrate with the rest. Not even trying. If you are still butthurt about your past and feeling sorry for yourself, that is only your problem. You choiced to still be alone, you didn't learn anything yet.
Downvote me as much as you want, I'm only trying to explain something you will understand in the future coming from experience, that is if you ever learn it. It's your ass, not mine.
I guess you were a bully and are now justifying you behavior, is that it? "Bullying victims deserved that for reasons most people don't really see" sounds bad to me.
As far as I can tell, I used to be bullied simply because I had frail health and couldn't fight back.
I'm not the least bit surprised he would be the person arguing that it's the bullied who are entirely at fault, and that being bullied means you were a failure and you should accept that.
"Being an asshole is totally justified if you're being an asshole towards someone who's mildly annoying, and if you're the annoying one then you deserved everything you got."
I am against violence, especially violence towards kids. But I swear, if I had child, and if I found out they bullied their classmate, I'd slap them so hard the wall would hit them as well! I would not even care, if it's a son or daughter! I'd let anything else pass. Bad grades? No worries. Skipped class? Whatever. But you bullied your clasmate? SMACK!
I was a pretty bad victim of bullying, but one thing I learned through connecting with the worst of my bullies later in life is that most were in abusive households themselves and acted out their aggression against targets at school since they were targets at home.
There are some exceptions, namely one guy who had a pretty good life who was a sociopathic asshole and is now in prison for being a child molester.
It's the poor victim I feel for. I was also bullied for my sight when I was younger.
The sad thing is, she will likely never talk about this; it's a very common reaction. She'll just pick herself up where the bullies leave off. Always feeling like disability holds other people back and makes her inferior. That she is boring and uncool because she only does blind person things. She'll grow up never thinking better about any of that.
She deserves all the sympathy and warmth in the world. Truly a tragic picture.
Unlike Poka, I doubt you had a class that contemplating *murdering you* for being unable to watch a movie during a free period.
I've been on two sides from three: be bullied, and spectator. Never bullied someone. Those who believe "karma doesn't exist" or "everyone moves on and have successful lives except me" are people who decided to live like a human rug to step on forever. They didn't learn anything from their experience and neither accepted their faults at being a failure even when those who bullied aren't around you anymore. They even forgot who you are because they learned to grow better from their previous selves and moved on with life.
Take this as an advice. We are social people, even in the wild world the one left alone gets eaten. It was the lone one who decided to be apart from the group without even trying to rejoin. There are cases children in their inexperience attack anything they can't understand or fear, that's though luck. I can't justify every bully case with what I am saying.
But, most of the cases I saw about bullying are persons shielding themselves with any excuse to not integrate with the rest. Not even trying. If you are still butthurt about your past and feeling sorry for yourself, that is only your problem. You choiced to still be alone, you didn't learn anything yet.
Downvote me as much as you want, I'm only trying to explain something you will understand in the future coming from experience, that is if you ever learn it. It's your ass, not mine.
I actually understand your point despite people downvoting. however I agree and disagree with this statement because this statement really depends on the conditions and the age of the person getting bullied, teenagers or almost adults/college students already or may have the grasp of understanding what are choices and learning. However this "might" not apply to little kids, these youngsters at the age of probably lets say 6-14 , (six is too young but i got bullied and thrown into the toilet bowl at that age anyways) have little to none understanding of what are choices, faults and learning to change, if ever they get bullied they would think of " why are they doing this to me" or "am i not good enough for them" or probably a mistake that made them get hated, and so on and so forth. many many reasons to be honest.
Kids may not have the understanding of it but it will heavily affect their lifestyle rather than the bully, if you are getting bullied, these scenarios MIGHT happen to you, (might meaning not all or not at all but base on my experience and other's too)
--- you get hurt, then if you try to tell your parents, you get scared because the bully will get mad and bully you more and do you think schools tolerate bullying? I think not that much, well whether you tell your parents or not the bully may continue *high chances* this will heavily pressure you and certainly will affect your studies and grades and your relationship with your parents, probably the parents will get disappointed too, especially if the family is tearing apart, going home seems to be harder rather than easier, your sanity, focus, morality and mentality will go down, rinse and repeat--
*you might say why not stand up? Well sadly this is not hollywood where all classmates would be "oh look at that bullied kid standing up for himself! " Well sadly reality hits pretty hard and probably they would just watch and spread rumours but if you are sooo unlucky, classmates would rather join the bullying person*
It may or may not be the child's choice to be a loner either, it's probably because he's scared or shy, taking more to open up, and bullies tend to take this chance of weakness, but anyways back where i was explaining, after rinse and repeating, this child would already by the time have developed ptsd and social anxiety, depression and probably more, affecting them as they grow older and this certain child as they grow up, will grow in this almost indestructible bubble of anxiety and possibly depression, distancing themselves from other students more rather than mingling because in their mindset, "no one would bother me if i don't bother/don't mind them" or " it will go away probably after this school year" it also makes them harder for them to trust others, even to try atleast, instead of picking a choice, they get stuck to the mindset of their past which makes decision making hard, escaping the past is hard when the memories and experience is inside you, changing theirselves at that point is almost like trying to jump to two seperate cliffs/ledges. It's either you change and reach the cliffs/ledges, get scared, or fall trying they have three "common" choices To change To be a bully To stay the same
It might be easy to say "why not change" but putting yourself in a bullied shoes , you are mentally broken, almost zero to no confidence, family always fighting or also broken or hates you, you have low grades, depressed and hanging on a thread, and the bully is until now still bullying you, easier said than done i guess, since nothing in life is easy
This is the part too where i agree with you, where the bully learns from things, forgets about you and lives a successful life, however keep in mind That it is highly and likely possible that he was once or still bullied or has a abusive family, or just for fun, well despite that, it is a tad bit easier to be a bully rather than to get bullied, i know the feeling of bullying someone since i became one too, it felt a bit relieving to make someone's life miserable as yours, like, i can't explain, i felt joy that someone was weaker than me? Basically probably fulfilling my ego, and when the bully grows up, he has the right mindset and knows that what he did was wrong, and proceeds to move on with his life. Well what happens to the bullied kid? Well now his life is in tatters for your own amusement and now he has to pick up the pieces which goes to the three "common" choices (there is an apostrophe because there are many more choices)
However if we are going to talk about older age bullying, that may be a different story, i may have mistakes on how i see them but yeah i'm just a human being :D welcome to my ted talk, have a good day to ya, cheers mate
Okay, this would be the first time that I would blacklist an artist not because his/her art is bad (it's actually pretty cute and fluffy), but because it makes me so mad and sad. But again, the fact it's making me feel something, it's a good sign.
Bro same, it’s probably some kind of instinctive some humans have, but stuff like this it just makes me so angry. Like I wish the artist would use their talent to make something cute, not a bunch of art of a blind girl suffering.
It's the poor victim I feel for. I was also bullied for my sight when I was younger.
The sad thing is, she will likely never talk about this; it's a very common reaction. She'll just pick herself up where the bullies leave off. Always feeling like disability holds other people back and makes her inferior. That she is boring and uncool because she only does blind person things. She'll grow up never thinking better about any of that.
She deserves all the sympathy and warmth in the world. Truly a tragic picture.
Your a good person. I’m glad people like you still exist.