Either I had really bad luck with finding competent ones, or they really don't give any meaningful advice, insight or solutions besides self-help booklets from top ten search engine results, trying to sell me on religion or saying that I do not have it that bad (which I well bloody know, never claimed otherwise and don't want to hear this from anybody, much less some rando who I payed for consultation, not platitudes)
Either way, it never felt like money and time well spent